Saturday, September 24, 2011

Falling In Love with your Kids

Let me share to you the "Nine Basic  Ingredients for Falling In Love with your KIDS" by Stephanie Marston and my take on each of them..

1.  Spend Time Together -  That's one thing that we want the kids  to remember when we are gone, the quality times that we spent together as a family.
2.  Develop Common Interests  - The four of us  love outdoors so we are always  into exploring  everything around us every chance we get..
3.  Play Together. -  I am glad we have lots of time to play together.
4.  Touch each other. - We always tell  our kids how important it is  to show each other  our affection, holding hands and hugging are just some of them..
5.  Treat your KIDS as if they are the most important  people in the world - It's a big thing for them to be acknowledged that they are important, that they are the main focus of your world.
6.  Celebrate the uniqueness. -  Each of our kids have different likes and interests and we try not to  compare them but rather support and love their uniqueness.
7.  Tell your children often that you love them.  - We make sure that we tell them how much we love  them, it is an assurance that we will be there for them - rain or shine -.
8.  Talk Together - Our kids are  only 6 and 4 years old but whenever hubby and I are planning for something, we always include them in the discussion.  You will never know  what they can contribute and what their opinions are if you don't ask them.  Their inputs  are very important to us, its one of the many ways you can teach your kids about decision making.
9.  Create Lasting Memories - This is what we do every day.  You might think that  children won't remember every little thing that you do with them, but they will.  I still remember  things that my parents and I did when I was a kid.
Real success is finding your lifework in the work that you love.
- David McCullough

Photos were taken last weekend during our afternoon walk in the neighborhood.

25 travelers' comments:

Chubskulit Rose said...

Thanks so much for visiting. Have a great weekend!

Lynn said...

So nice! May natutunan ako today, Sis. Salamat! (",)

Chubskulit Rose said...

You're welcome Lynn, thanks for visiting.

LV said...

You definitely have the right attitude on raising children.

Chubskulit Rose said...

Thanks a lot Ms. LV.

Jil~Say It With Roses said...

You have very lucky children to have the parents they do!!

Dhemz said...

galing naman...thanks for sharing sis....parang balot na balot na kau jan EJ lang ang inde...:)

have a great weekend guys!

xinex said...

Great reminders, Rose. You and John are such good paretns!..Christine

Faith Hope and Cherrytea said...

Beautiful! lovely thoughts and lovely family ~
thanks for visiting and chatting at FHC ~ happy for your company =))

Cindy said...

I just tried to leave you a message, but the blogger template changed...I hope you get this one. What a beautiful post--Happy Pink Saturday to you and your beautiful family.

My name is Riet said...

That is a wise attitude. Happy pink Saturday

bj said...

They are gifts to us from God and we are so blessed to have them.
Just wait until you become a's a love and experience no one can tell you have to live it. :))

Sarah A. Galang, Ph.D. said...

wow sis... ang saya saya naman... that's true, family is the best and be given importance.

His Unfailing Love

Jenny's Heart said...

What a lovely post. You have such a sweet family.

forgetmenot said...

Every parent should have a copy of your suggestions and work on doing those very things each day. Excellent post to pass along. Mickie :)

Chubskulit Rose said...

Thank you so much everyone!

Dianne said...

wonderful wise advice and beautiful family photos

Ralph said...

These 'rules' are wonderful, and so true! Ours may be 22 and 20 now, but we always had dinner together, always conversed with and listened to ours - the time together always special. A testament to the parents - or the children. Lovely post!

Hootin Anni said...

...and they grow up and leave all too quickly. Dear me, I have grandsons that are in their 20s and teens already!! Where does the time go? You've captured some wonderful photos along with great shadows.

My Link: Backyard Shadow

Have a terrific weekend.

Jillian's Bella Rosa Antiques said...

Great post! We try to do all of those things and I DO think it will make a difference in our little one's life. Plus, every bit of love you give away, you get right back!


pinkkandy said...

Happy pinkness...Happy Autumn....I am so excited for Fall, I know you are too !!It just makes me want to cozy up...enjoy your week-end!
God Bless You

Chubskulit Rose said...

Glad this post is appreciated, thanks for your visit.

Tatjana Parkacheva said...

Beautiful post.

Regards and best wishes for you and your family

Sarah said...

That is such a lovely post. I don't have children but I do teach young children and I think all of this applies. Your kids and you and your hubby make a lovely family!

Mel Alarilla said...

Yes, your family relationship is very ideal. You and John have done great with your family and your kids are responding positively to that. I have no doubt that your kids will grow up to be responsible individuals and later on, very responsible parents too. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.

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