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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

The Proposal

Even if my then boyfriend asked me to marry him before we see each other in person, I still did not expect a hundred percent of our relationship mainly because I did not want to get hurt in the end. In my mind, "we'll give it a try" if we are meant for each other, then everything will work out fine, sabi nga nila "Pag ukol, bubukol" diba?
I asked him once when we were married already "When did you know exactly that you want to marry me?" He said "When you cleaned the toilet for me". Sorry guys, this might gross you out hahaha. As big as he is, his poop of course will be big so when he used our bathroom, he clogged it hahaha.

He also told me that on our first meeting, he was observing if I have the "Rule of 12" syndrome. He said that a lot of women possess this kind of attitude and that is what he really don't like. Rule of 12 is when a woman act like a 12 years old or being childish. But hey, mas matanda pa ako sa kalabaw kaya matured na ko noh hahaha.
This is my cousin's baby.

During the time that we spend together, I came to realize that he really is a man that I would be marry. He was running around playing with the kids in my place when I first brought him there. From there and then, I know that he would be a loving Dad and a good husband.

Since my parents does not speak English, I have to translate to them when John was asking them that he is going to marry me. It's funny because my father said YES right away hahaha. He was drunk so he was very brave to decide lol. But don't get excited because we'll continue the next chapter on next episode..

31 travelers' comments:

sexyjessie said...

Awww Rose, it's so sweet. You are really meant for each other.

Mom of Four said...

When you cleaned the toilet for him, that's when he proved that you are a sincere, honest and humble. Walang puti na gagawa nyan to tell you honestly. Meaning, di ka nandiri sa kanyang ebak, kasi mahal mo siya.

When he was with you and your family that time, he showed you that he was so loving since he got along well with your family and the kids. Ganyan din ang hubby ko, he would play with children, kaya I know that he was going to be a good father, and I was right.

Great post Rose.. Wait ko ang next week.

LV said...

Enjoyed hearing about your love life. He is a very good looking guy, so if he is as good to you as he looks, he is okay. Thanks for sharing and for visiting me.

chrisau said...

thanks for sharing your real life love story :)

Chris said...

wow... its always great to read a love story :D

anne said...

wahhh bitin naman nito lol naun ko lang nalaman ung 12 syndrome hehehe thanks for the info anyway mine is up its in Mary anne's musings wahhh bagal talaga ng connection ko naun grr matutulog na nga lang ako, talagang inantay ko ang page mong mag load lol

anne said...

wahhh bitin naman nito lol naun ko lang nalaman ung 12 syndrome hehehe thanks for the info anyway mine is up its in Mary anne's musings wahhh bagal talaga ng connection ko naun grr matutulog na nga lang ako, talagang inantay ko ang page mong mag load lol

Meryl (proud pinay) said...

"Oh pag-ibig na makapangyarihan!!!
kapag pumasok sa puso ninuman
hahamakin ang lahat masunod ka lamang"
ganyan talaga pag in-love anoh...

nakakaaliw naman si father dear sistah ^_^

gengen said...

hehhehe you have a cute story too thanks for sharing...Mine also is ready...I will come back again....

The Crap Blog Detective said...

Are you one of those catalogue brides that Western men who cant get a woman from their own country can order online?

Dhemz said...

hahhaha...kakatuwa talaga tong entry mo sis...my gosh...tawa ako ng tawa while reading this......

hahhahaha....nag clogged ba naman ang bathroom....lol....ehehehhee!

ayaw pala nya childish....anong matanda pa sa kalabaw....kakaloka....hahaha!

super skinny pa ni john during that time...thanks for sharing sis...glad to know the details....

eds said...

haha.. si tatay talaga.. palagay ko kung nangyari ang pamanhikan sa amin nanay ko ang sasagot ng OO hehehe.. love ur story sis ..

mine is up here >> http://mydigihome.info/?p=189

Seiko said...

Fitst & foremost I would like to congratulate Rylie.'m so happy for you & John & Rylie really deserved to win that contest.

Ahaha!!Buti na lang nilinis mo ang toilet nya.
Buti na lang din at nalasing ang father mo kaya pala naman naibigay kaagad ang oo sa mamanugangin nila eh.
I absolutely agree w/ you kung hindi uukol hindi bubukol.
Pareho pala tayo ako dn I asked hubby bakit ako?Mine's up now,hope you can visit it.
Hugs!

Lulu Post said...

aray ko pooo! nagclog talaga ang CR!!! naku buti nalang hindi nangyari sa asawa ko yan kasi hindi ko kakayanin! promiseee!!!!! Noong wala pa si Andrea sa buhay ko naku kahit laway nga lang ng baby nasusuka na ako...

I didn't have a choice noong dumating si Andrea kasi walang katulong... kaya after a while sanay na sanay na... expert na kamo!

thanks for sharing your proposal story

teJan said...

bwahahaha.. thanks for giving me a good laugh sis! ahehhe..can't stop laughing here:) even alone..ehhe.

Anyway you really meant for each other to have another beautiful family in this world..heh!

chubskulit said...

To answer your curiosity Mr. Blog Catalog Detective, I am not a Catalogue bride nor mail-order bride. Educated women don't do such kind of thing. It's our fate that brought my husband and I together.

Furthermore, my husband has been all over the world and he thinks that women from our race is better than other women he have dated before. Thanks for stopping by.

Cecile said...

hahaha, para palang yung mga in-laws ko eh, everytime they come visit us, nag co clogged ang toilet namin :-); btw, you did the right thing, kasi he only showed that he will be a great husband and father which he is right now!

tatay ko rin ganyan, pag lasing nasasabi ang di kayang sabihin pag di lasing...

thanks for sharing your love story, i always enjoy it!

sheng said...

first time to hear that 12 syndrome...parang ako un eh...hehehe

nice to hear ur story dear..nakakatuwa...

Kero said...

hahahaaaaa! i immensely enjoyed your post Mommy Rose.

I think that Filipina women really have that certain charm and maturity that makes us very appealing to other nationalities. plus we don't make for an expensive wife. So long as our partner loves and respect us, we chose to marry them for richer and for poorer.

i look forward to your wedding day :)

Yami said...

Oo nga Mommy Rose mahilig nga siya sa bata no wonder he's a loving and caring dad to your kids just like mine. swerte natin sa mga papa. :D

eden said...

hahaha natawa din ako sa story mo Rose. yon pala ang nangyari sa toilet nyo. you are so blessed. john is so sweet and a good guy..

i always love reading love story and thanks sharing your proposal sotry..

have to think about joining Rose . i would love to. thanks for inviting.

hugs

Bambie dear ★ said...

nakakatuwa naman.. im so sure na mas lalo mo pa sya napa-inlove nung nakita nya ang iyong qualities, simple at walang kaartehan sa buhay. Kaya naman sobrang na touch sya ng nilinis mo ang kubeta para sa kanya hehe, yun na siguro ang sign para sa kanya lol.. naiimagine ko din na sobrang nag enjoy sya nung first time nya bumisita sa inyo, iba kasi ang hospitality ng pinoy, lalo na sa mga foreigners, parang celebrity ang trato lol.. kaya si hubby din super enjoy ng bumisita sa min, ako din ang translator.

ill try to catch up.. di ko kasi alam paano ikwento ang love story namin eh, ang gagaling nyo kasi magsulat.

Nwei thanks for informing me about ate Clang, gosh nakakahiya, naunahan ako ng excitement nung nabasa ko na pregnant sya kasi tagala na nya wait yun, kaya di ko na inintindi ang last sentences ng post nya..

Khim said...

hehehe! sweet naman oj...
injoy tagala ako magbasa nang love-story...

Thanks for sharing...

Seiko said...

'm back here Rose,yeah nabasa ko na,tumaas nga ang kilay ko hehe ok yung sinagot mo.
Here's a hug for you Rose.Hugs!

Lindz said...

HI Rose, ng dahil sa toilet pala ha hehehe... oh I'm sure he finds you lovely, just by looking at the pic kitang kita na you are the one hehehe and jsut ahve a look at John, he's guwapo...

kathy said...

hahahahha.. it's funny the reason why he decided to marry you although I know that love is the first and foremost reason... Iba tlaga magmahal ang pinay, kahit ano, gagawin para sa kabiyak..

I have the same experience with my hubby, it's regarding his ebak too! hehehehe but I won't elaborate kasi baka humaba pa ang comment ko...

Mel Alarilla said...

Nakakainis naman laging bitin, hehehe, joke lang. Talagang kinareer mo ang pagiging telenobelista, lol. Ang ganda nang kwento mo tapos saka mo ibibitin. Sabik na sabik tuloy yung viewers, ehe, readers mo pala. Baka kunin ka nang kapuso o kapamilya network na maging story teller o segment provider sa kanilang mga telenobela. Ang galing mong magkwento at lalo kang magaling mambitin. O yung next episode ha, aabangan ko ang susunod na kabanata. Thanks for the episode, ehe post pala. God bless you always.

shydub said...

Hahaha yes kaagad si tatay bakla kulang nalng ipamigay abg dalaga nyahahaha.

Ng dahil sa poop, nakita ni John ang magiging asawa nya hehehe. Anong mayroon sa poop bakla kasi, when my joe visited me, he stepped on a dog poop and of course I had to cleaned his shoes heheh nakita rin siguro niya na ito na ang pwedi taga paglinis ng bahay nya waaaa.

Ang bait naman ng hubby mo talaga bakla kasi sa inyo siya nag stay ang get konow your folks and ask them so nicely with respect in marrying you, ako ninakaw lng yata hehehe.

Hay bakla ngayon lng nagkalugar ang bakla dito kasi sobrang lamig, tinatamad akong mag hop kagabi. IIlan lng na visit ko, masakit likod ko.

Beng Gee said...

Sweet and exciting romance. Kakatuwa kaya lang bitin. will be right back for the conclusion.

Kelan kayo babalik sa U.S. mainland
Rose?

niko said...

natawa ako kay father :) nag yes agad eh.. kaloka mare hahaah

no regrets naman tlga. diba??

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Clarissa said...

Hhahaa!!Thanks!!I had a great laugh with that!!You're so lucky to have him and Sir John for having you.

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